Bøger af David Deida

• Hold op med at håbe på, at din kvinde bliver nemmere• Skift aldrig mening bare for at behage en kvinde• Værdsæt hende• Foreslå ikke, at en kvinde skal klare sit eget følelsesmæssige problem• Lad være med at analysere din kvinde• Dit livsmål må gå forud for dit parforholdEt revolutionerende syn på hvad det betyder at være mand i dag såvel som en praktisk guide til at leve et kompromisløst og autentisk maskulint liv ved at slappe af og være sig selv.Den maskuline mand er en opdagelsesrejse ind i hjertet af de moderne maskuline erfaringer. Med stor åbenhed og indsigt i de dybeste lag af mødet mellem det maskuline og feminine afdækker Deida de mest betydningsfulde udfordringer i mandens liv.Med udgangspunkt i, at ligeberettigelsen mellem kønnene er blevet integreret i vores del af verden, beskriver Deida de naturlove, der gælder for kønnene. Han udleverer med stor autoritet de spil, som de fleste af os kan nikke genkendende til. Og ved at dække mandens forhold til både arbejde, karriere, sex og kvinder viser han, hvordan det er muligt for en mand at finde mening og formål i en stadig mere overfladisk verden.Endelig en bog, der forklarer en kvindes hjerte og sjæl til mænd. Som kvinde har jeg aldrig tidligere følt mig så forstået og værdsat. - Marci Shimoff, forfatterEn bog for den ikke-kastrerede mand. Den vil fornærme og irritere nogle, inspirere og teste andre og udfordre så godt som alle og enhver. Jeg ser den som vis, indsigtsfuld, nu og da fremragende og altid fuld af ressourcer. – Ken Wilber, forfatter

Enhver kvinde kender eventyret: find den rigtige mand, giv ham, hvad han ønsker og behøver og han ville elske dig for evigt. Men når myten ikke holder, når du mærker at du har slået dig til tåls med meget mindre end du i dit hjerte ved er muligt – hvordan tiltrækker og får du en mand, som er i stand til at leve op til det, som du allermest lidenskabeligt længes efter?MIN ELSKEDE er skrevet til kvinder om de dybere aspekter af kærlighed. En lidenskabelig mand, der skriver til kvinden i sit liv om det han ser hos hende. Om deres møde. Om den spirituelle salighed, der gemmer sig i kærlighedens udfoldelse. Deida har en sjælden evne til at forvandle relationer mellem partnere til sublime eventyr. Marci Shimoff siger om bogen, at hun aldrig som kvinde har følt sig så godt forstået og værdsat. Forord af Marianne Williamson.Deida er anerkendt internationalt som en indsigtsfuld lærer, der vil revolutionere den måde, hvorpå mænd og kvinder udvikler sig åndeligt og seksuelt. Han holder foredrag og workshops over hele verden og har også besøgt Danmark. Vi har tidligere udgivet: DEN MASKULINE MAND.

The secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace. Provocative and direct, The Enlightened Sex Manual teaches you how to transform simple "skin friction" into the depths and embodiment of ecstasy; how to develop sexual abilities as gifts of heart rapture and bodily surrender; how to achieve the principal types of orgasm and all their varieties; and much more.For men and women, singles and couples of every sexual orientation, The Enlightened Sex Manual provides a complete program for sustaining "whole-body recognition of love's light" in the wild play of sexuality.

The Ultimate Spiritual Guide for Men What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questions - but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now. In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives - from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality - to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise. ''t is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart,'' writes David Deida. ''It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine.''The Way of the Superior Man presents the ultimate challenge - and reward - for today's man: to discover the 'unity of heart and spine' through the full expression of consciousness and love in the infinite openness of ....

Your Call to Open to Love''s Deepest BlissEvery woman knows the fairy taleΓÇöfind the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and he''ll love you forever. But when the myth you''ve been asked to believe fails to deliverΓÇöwhen you sense you''ve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possibleΓÇöthen how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for? In Dear Lover, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking, to family and career, to emotions, trust, and commitment. Written as a collection of letters from a man to his dear lover, here is this internationally acclaimed writer''s invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit.

"Wild Nights cuts through the illusions of modern spirituality into the depth of life before God. Impure, soaked with all bodily liquids, pierced by clear recognition of death, wide opened with the power of love-living as love-in any moment of daily life. If you do not choose to be a hermit, if you want to practice awakening within relationships, in the realm where sex and death are such powerful momentums-you'd better read this book, and not only once."-Rabbi Ohad Ezrahi, author of Paths of EmpowermentMeet Mykonos, both scurrilous madman and the voice of truth. Wild Nights presents David Deida's remarkable account of his days with the unconventional teacher who revealed to him the deeper wisdom of the erotic path to the divine.From our very first encounter to the "burden of bliss" that is his parting gift, Mykonos challenges our understanding of what makes a spiritual life. Brutally candid, he offers his teaching to anyone ready to listen, with an uncanny ability to see into the hearts and minds of his students better than they can their own. Charged with provocative scenes of unbridled passion and play, Wild Nights explodes with spiritual insights into our choice to "open as love, or close and suffer"; yogic sexual techniques including circular breathing and expanding feeling beyond the self and into the heart of a lover; and why, for some, full sexual expression is a requirement of spiritual maturation.For its honest depiction of the spiritual teacher and student relationship-and the questions it demands we ask about our own sexuality-Wild Nights proclaims David Deida a guiding light in the often cloudy realm of sex and spirit.

Are You Ready to Open to Loves Deepest Bliss? Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and hell love you forever. But when the myth youve been asked to believe fails to deliver - when you sense youve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible - how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for? In Dear Lover: A Womans Guide to Men, Sex, and Loves Deepest Bliss, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Written as a collection of letters from a man to his ''dear lover,'' here is this internationally acclaimed writers invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover: Why your man is always your choice - and how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit ''Sexual essence'' and the three stages of loving: how to understand your fluctuating capacity to experience divine connection with another Knowing when to end a relationship and how to deal with the ''him-shaped void'' your absent man leaves behind Daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust Ultimately, what every woman wants is to give and receive love fully. Whether youre partnered or alone, Dear Lover reveals that ''your love is the same love that yearns to open at everybodys heart. You will attract and inspire a man as willing and able to open as you are. Constant yearning is the call to open and give yourself to all as loves offering.

Denne bog præsenterer dig for en revolutionerende ny måde at elske på. For når det kommer til sex, vil de fleste af os gerne have mere. Det store spørgsmål er bare: mere af hvad? David Deidas svar til de af jer, der dybde ønsker mere dybde i jeres sexliv, og som går rundt med en følelse af, at sex burde bestå af mere end bare kortvarig fysisk tilfredsstillelse, er, at tiden er inde til at udforske ens unikke spirituelle seksualitet. Bogen er lavet ud fra målet om, at kærligheden forstørres og bliver til noget hinsides det, to mennesker deler. At sex bliver en total forsvinden ind i kærlighedens fylde, noget, der går ud over den tilfredsstillelse, det giver, når to kroppe gnubber sig mod hinanden, og man nærer følelser for hinanden. Hvert kapitel indledes med en kort erotisk tekst, der belyser en særlig stemning af elskov, og efterfølges af direkte instruktioner, der taler klart og ligefremt til den drivkraft, de to køn hver især besidder, og som er et resultat af, at den feminine del af os længes efter en dybere kærlighed, og den maskuline del kæmper for større frihed. David Deida bringer 30 års erfaring og arbejde med tusindvis af par i spil for at illustrere de veje, vi – som mænd og kvinder – med sindsro kan begive os hen ad i vores bestræbelser på at nå frem til en mere utæmmet lidenskab, samhørighed og spirituel vækst, der rækker ud over nuet og os selv.DAVID DEIDA er internationalt anerkendt som en af de mest indsigtsfulde og provokerende spirituelle lærere i vor tid. Hans mål er at revolutionere den måde, mænd og kvinder vokser spirituelt og seksuelt på. Hans bøger bliver blandt andet betragtet som nogle af de mest originale og autentiske bidrag til personlig og spirituel vækst. Den maskuline mand og Min elskede af ham er allerede udkommet på dansk.

Are You Ready to Open to Loves Deepest Bliss? Every woman knows the fairy tale: find the right man, give him what he wants and needs, and hell love you forever. But when the myth youve been asked to believe fails to deliver - when you sense youve been settling for far less than you know in your heart is possible - how do you attract and keep a man capable of meeting what you most passionately yearn for? In Dear Lover: A Womans Guide to Men, Sex, and Loves Deepest Bliss, David Deida explores every aspect of the feminine practice of spiritual intimacy, from sexuality and lovemaking to family and career to emotions, trust, and commitment. Written as a collection of letters from a man to his ''dear lover, '' here is this internationally acclaimed writers invitation to practice love as a living art, as you discover: Why your man is always your choice - and how to pick the man of deep integrity who will satisfy the needs of your body, heart, and spirit ''Sexual essence'' and the three stages of loving: how to understand your fluctuating capacity to experience divine connection with another Knowing when to end a relationship and how to deal with the ''him-shaped void'' your absent man leaves behind Daily exercises to help you and your partner move from separation to openness in two-bodied devotional trust Ultimately, what every woman wants is to give and receive love fully. Whether youre partnered or alone, Dear Lover reveals that ''your love is the same love that yearns to open at everybodys heart. You will attract and inspire a man as willing and able to open as you are. Constant yearning is the call to open and give yourself to all as loves offering.

The secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace. In paperback for the first time, The Enlightened Sex Manual teaches you how to transform simple ''skin friction'' into the depths and embodiment of ecstasy, how to develop sexual abilities as gifts of heart rapture and bodily surrender, how to achieve the principal types of orgasm - and all their varieties - and much more.

The Ultimate Spiritual Guide for Men What is your true purpose in life? What do women really want? What makes a good lover? If you're a man reading this, you've undoubtedly asked yourself these questions - but you may not have had much luck answering them. Until now. In The Way of the Superior Man, David Deida explores the most important issues in men's lives - from career and family to women and intimacy to love and spirituality - to offer a practical guidebook for living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity, and freedom. Join this bestselling author and internationally renowned expert on sexual spirituality for straightforward advice, empowering skills, body practices, and more to help you realize a life of fulfillment, immediately and without compromise. ''t is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart, '' writes David Deida. ''It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine.''The Way of the Superior Man presents the ultimate challenge - and reward - for today's man: to discover the 'unity of heart and spine' through the full expression of consciousness and love in the infinite openness of ....

You are deeper than your life shows, and you know it. You are more loving than your relationships allow, more brilliant than your career suggests. In your secret depth of being, you are infinite, creative, boundless - and utterly unable to press your full glory into the world. Or so it seems. In Blue Truth, internationally acclaimed teacher David Deida presents a treasury of insights for uncovering your true heart of purpose, passion, and unquenchable love. In Part One, Deida shows you how to ''open as the entirety of the moment, feeling as deep inside and as far outside as you can, for as long as now opens.'' In Part Two, he reveals how to walk this path in the wilderness of intimate relationship, illuminating ''the art and play of sexual gifting'' and how to expertly navigate the tangle of anger, jealousy, fear, and lust. ''Knowing the truth is fairly useless; feeling it is profound; living it makes all the difference, '' teaches David Deida. With Blue Truth, you have an unprecedented guide for living your own deep truth, and awakening ''as the bare openness you are, in the free offering of love to all.

When it comes to sex, most of us want more. The question is: more of what? According to David Deida, when the depth of intimacy you've been experiencing is no longer fulfilling to your heart and body-when you sense that sexuality should go far beyond an embrace of brief satisfaction-the time has come to explore your unique sexual path to the divine. In Finding God Through Sex, this brilliant writer and internationally renowned expert on spiritual sexuality presents a revolutionary new way to love-one in which sex literally becomes an erotic act of devotional surrender, "making love, magnifying love, from the boundless depth of your heart through every inch of your body and in merger with your lover."Through provocative vignettes that illuminate the many moods that color lovemaking, and direct instruction that speaks honestly to the masculine and feminine desires within each of us, Deida brings wisdom gained from 30 years' work with thousands of couples to illustrate the distinct yet complementary avenues men and women can skillfully travel toward untamed passion and sacred unity. What unfolds is an unparalleled road map to the place where we "love as the cosmos loves: One loving itself as an other, yet remembering itself as One."

This maverick author and teacher offers a "rude awakening" through a collection of daring exercises and practices intended to encourage readers to blast the light of consciousness on the taboos that hide in shadow, from ideas about sex and money to emotions and spirituality.

You are deeper than your life shows, and you know it. You are more loving than your relationships allow, more brilliant than your career suggests. In your secret depth of being, you are infinite, creative, boundless and utterly unable to press your full glory into the world. Or so it seems.In Blue Truth, David Deida presents a treasury of skills and insights for uncovering and offering your true heart of purpose, passion, and unquenchable love. In Part One, Deida shows you how to open as the entirety of the moment, feeling as deep inside and as far outside as you can, for as long as now opens. In Part Two, he reveals how to walk this path in the wilderness of intimate relationship, illuminating the art and play of sexual gifting, including how to expertly navigate the tangle of anger, jealousy, fear, lust, and much, much more.“Knowing the truth is fairly useless; feeling it is profound; living it makes all the difference,” teaches David Deida. With Blue Truth, you have an unprecedented guide for living your own deep truth, and awakening “as the bare openness you are, in the free offering of love to all.”

The secret to enlightenment and great sex is revealed to be one and the same in this groundbreaking manual for adventurous lovers. David Deida was trained for decades in the art of spiritual and sexual awakening. Now he presents the ultimate collection of skills for opening to the physical, emotional, and spiritual rewards of intimate embrace. In paperback for the first time, The Enlightened Sex Manual teaches you how to transform simple ''skin friction'' into the depths and embodiment of ecstasy, how to develop sexual abilities as gifts of heart rapture and bodily surrender, how to achieve the principal types of orgasm - and all their varieties - and much more.

Was ist meine wahre Bestimmung im Leben? Was wollen die Frauen wirklich? Was macht einen guten Liebhaber aus?David Deida untersucht die wichtigsten Themen im Leben eines Mannes - von Karriere und Familie über Frauen und Intimität zu Liebe und Spiritualität - um Männern einen praktischen Wegweiser für ein Leben in Integrität, Echtheit und Freiheit zu geben. Mit klaren Hinweisen, stärkenden Erkenntnissen, Körperübungen und vielem mehr unterstützt Sie der international anerkannte Experte für Sexualität und Spiritualität, ein erfülltes Leben zu verwirklichen - jetzt sofort und ohne Kompromisse!»Es ist an der Zeit, sich über das Macho-Ideal - nur Rückgrat und kein Herz - hinauszuentwickeln,« schreibt David Deida. »Es ist aber auch an der Zeit, sich über das sensible Softie-Ideal, nur Herz und kein Rückgrat, hinauszuentwickeln.« Er fordert den heutigen Mann heraus, etwas Neues zu entdecken.

Learn how to keep your relationships growing--beyond the sexually neutralized roles so typical of today--and create a relationship that is spiritually erotic, sexually deep and passionately committed to love.