Divorce for Dummies

Learn to: Evaluate your options in light of changes in the law Minimize legal, financial, and personal stress Get more of what you want from negotiations Utilize the latest statistics, Web sites, and resources Now updated -- your realistic, reassuring guide to surviving divorce Getting divorced is almost never easy, but this practical, plain-English guide helps you get through the proceedings with a minimum of stress and expense. It shows you the latest changes in collaborative divorces, common law and same-sex marriages, and even custody law -- and how to work out the terms so you can begin building a fulfilling postdivorce life. Understand the divorce process -- review the key issues and decisions, get your finances in order, and file the petition Decide whether divorce is the best option -- weigh the pros and cons of separation, consider marriage counseling, and learn about annulments Put things in motion -- initiate the proceedings, break the news to your spouse and children, and deal with your emotions Make important and difficult decisions -- divide your assets and debts, make a case for spousal support, and get the best custody arrangement for your children Protect yourself -- plan for life after divorce, safeguard your money, and take action if things turn unfriendly or dangerous Avoid a divorce trial -- negotiate your own divorce, seek help from an attorney, and work with a mediator Handle postdivorce challenges -- meet your financial obligations, deal with visitation and child support problems, and get your personal life back on track Open the book and find: What to do before you file for divorce Tips for finding a competent, affordable divorce attorney Help for managing your finances during and after divorce Advice on helping children cope Divorce blogs, Web sites, and support groups Ways to rebuild your life after divorce How to utilize mediation when negotiations get rough Alternatives to divorce