Philosophical Midwifery: A New Paradigm for Understanding Human Problems with Its Validation

Since we accept as part of the natural order of life that parents love their children, sacrifice for them, and desire to influence the direction of their lives, it is possible to make that love and caring more profound and mature if we understand the significance of how, as parents and authorities, we unknowingly influence the lives of our children. When we reveal to them our most vital concerns, we do not realize that children draw their own conclusions from these encounters, and it is these conclusions that may adversely affect the understanding that shapes and molds their lives. We need to encourage families to create situations for family members where these pathologos scenes and the conclusions drawn from them can be discussed, reflected upon, and reexamined, thereby making the meaning of these words and deeds fit into a context other than the matrix of the pathologos. To achieve this goal, an openness to questions and discussions needs to be established in our society. A philosophical midwifery (PMW) approach could conceivably benefit those who recognize this need.